In Loving Memory of Angela and Domenico Defrenza: A Family and Community Shattered by Tragedy
WOOD DALE, ILLINOIS — The close-knit community of Wood Dale is reeling from a heartbreaking tragedy that unfolded Saturday afternoon, leaving two members of a beloved family dead in what authorities believe was a domestic-related murder-suicide. The victims have been identified as 74-year-old Angela Defrenza and her son, 48-year-old Domenico Defrenza.
According to the Wood Dale Police Department, officers were dispatched to the area of Addison Road and Charmille Lane around 2:00 p.m. after receiving reports of an unresponsive person lying in the front yard of a residence. When officers arrived, they discovered Angela Defrenza deceased outside the home, suffering from what appeared to be a stab wound.
While securing the scene, officers entered the residence and made a second tragic discovery—Domenico Defrenza, also deceased from an apparent stab wound. Preliminary findings led investigators to conclude that the incident was domestic in nature and that Domenico had taken his own life after fatally stabbing his mother.
The DuPage County Metropolitan Emergency Response and Investigation Team (MERIT), the DuPage County State’s Attorney’s Office, and the DuPage County Coroner’s Office are assisting local authorities in the ongoing investigation.
“This is a heartbreaking tragedy for the family and for our community,” said Chief of Police Chris Zito in an official statement. “Our thoughts are with those affected by this devastating incident. We want to reassure residents that there is no ongoing threat to public safety, and our investigators are working diligently to bring clarity to the circumstances surrounding this case.”
The news has left neighbors and loved ones in shock, mourning the sudden and devastating loss of two lives that had long been part of the Wood Dale community. Friends describe Angela as a warm, kindhearted woman—a devoted mother and neighbor who always had a kind word to offer and a smile to share. “Angela was one of the sweetest people you could ever meet,” a neighbor shared through tears. “She was gentle, loving, and always looked out for everyone on this block.”
Those who knew Domenico said he had faced personal struggles in recent years but was known as a quiet, hardworking man who deeply loved his mother. “He adored her,” said a family friend. “They were always together, taking care of the home, running errands, just living their lives quietly. It’s so tragic that it ended like this.”
The tragedy has reignited conversations in the community about mental health awareness and the importance of seeking help in moments of crisis. Local leaders and faith groups have urged residents to support one another during this time of grief and to reach out to those who may be struggling silently.
Counseling and support services have been made available for neighbors and relatives affected by the incident, as the community attempts to come to terms with such an unthinkable loss.
Angela Defrenza will be remembered as a loving mother, a cherished friend, and a gentle spirit whose warmth touched everyone around her. Her life was marked by kindness, compassion, and a steadfast devotion to family. Domenico, despite the darkness of his final moments, will also be remembered for the better parts of his life—for the love he once shared with his mother and the person he strived to be before pain overtook his heart.
The Wood Dale Police Department continues to ask that anyone with additional information about the incident contact them at (630) 766-2060 and dial #4.
As the investigation continues, the community of Wood Dale grieves together, holding close the memory of a mother and son whose lives ended too soon. May Angela Defrenza and Domenico Defrenza rest in eternal peace, and may those left behind find comfort, healing, and strength in one another during this time of profound sorrow. 💔